Julian - On love as a student

Nowadays As a student, it’s very hard to love someone and keep relationship. There are a lot of things to deal with. We should study for many exam and do some international activities like voluntary service and attending competition. And some students should have part-time job for their tution fee or some extra activities. Also we should study some foreign languages. We have no time to love. And it can connect to money problem. We have no time to work for a lot of money. And love needs money. It makes some harder and harder to love. So some students think love as an obstacle to their study or future. I think this is the real problem that makes love hard. Because most of all people have same problem either they love or not. And after we get a job and earn money, this situation will not change. Without changing in our mind, we can’t start love.

 A writer whom I respect said that people need 4 things to keep and improve their personality. That is work, love, play and solidarity. All of these are necessary to human life. Love is not a obstacle to your life but a foundation of your life. It makes you understand other people and difference more. You can heard other people’s thinking and you can forgive other’s fault with love. It can bring happiness to your life. Sometimes it can bring also sadness and anger but it also needs to your personality. And some people think that the goal of love is keeping relationship or marriage. I think there is a lot of shape of love in our world. Love can include parting. Sometimes parting makes love more beautiful. Keeping relationship or marriage is not goal. And it is also very important for growing student. Erich Fromm said that people should learn about true love. It means love can be taught. So if you don’t learn about love when you are student, it’s very hard to learn when you grow up. I think we should love others and think others. And change thinking about love and erasing misunderstanding about love can help you escape from hesitancy. When people change their mind, and understand need of love, they can make time to love and overcome some problems. And with love, they can grow up and can be a better person who can love and understand different people.